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Name: Aleatha
Country: United States
State: Kansas
Metro: Manhattan
Birthday: 10/4/1986
Gender: Female
Interests: silence, the human mind, sewing clothes, latin, Mozart's Requiem in D Minor, being happy, cupcakes, books, comparing things like slight accent differences, land characteristics of different areas of the world, and personalities
Expertise: secretive, reclusive, messy, disorganized, introverted, unassertive, rarely worries, dislikes large parties, does not like to fit in, does not need to control others, solitary, ambivalent about chaos, tough, leisurely, does not respect authority, not aggressive, observer, abstract, impractical, dislikes leadership, daydreamer, bizarre, does not make friends easily, not a perfectionist, rarely irritated, strong physical instincts, sympathetic, risk taker, submissive, weird, sarcastic, strange (I am truly a goddess of disturbed tranquility). snow scouts are accomadating, basic, calm, darling, emblematic, frisky, grinning, human, innocent, jumping, kept, limited, meek, nap-loving, official, pretty, quarantined, recent, scheduled, tidy, understandable, victorious, wholesome, xylophone, young, and zippered, every morning, every afternoon, every night, and all day long.
Occupation: Other
Industry: Other
Message: message me
Website: visit my website
Member Since:
4/14/2004
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| i switched blogs to: http://aleatha.wordpress.com/
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| hello, and this is where we're getting married.
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| my wedding dress is done and it looks kind of like this dress:
only all white and stuff. with beads.
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| discussion questions for all who read this blog:
I have noticed that most of my friends say they do not feel at all ready for marriage. I am engaged and can't wait to be married. I have felt ready for marriage for a year or two, even before I knew Samuel and did not know anyone I wanted to marry. When I started dating Samuel, I immediately started thinking about whether I wanted to marry a guy like him.
What makes someone "ready for marriage"? What makes them feel not ready at all?
What makes them start thinking about their boyfriends/girlfriends in terms of "would I want to marry you?"
Do you feel like you could get married as soon as you find someone you want to marry? Or would you feel "not ready" and back out or make them wait, even if you think you want to marry them somewhere along the road?
What do you think it means to be "ready for marriage"? What do you think most people in our culture think it is to be "ready for marriage"? What do you think should happen between a couple before they decide to get married? What is marriage more important than/less important than (should it wait for school, money, ??)?
a few reasons I like Samuel enough to marry him (i will try not to be too mushy):
same religion
a kind, gentle person
loves children
hard worker
speaks french
reads kierkegaard
was homeschooled/wants to homeschool children possibly
is funny and cute
does not intimidate me (like a too tall/big man would, or like a very loud person would)
very very smart
not a (very) picky eater
loves me
wants to marry me :)
please discuss!
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look there he is! samuel!
he is sooo cute....
heeee! and here is a picture of when i dyed his hair blue
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